They say "said" is an invisible word you can use as often as you need because readers don't notice it. Are there other invisible words? I'm specifically interested in these three, because I'm sick of writing them. It seems like somebody is turning around, turning away, turning to look at, stepping forward, or stepping back at least once every few lines. Should I give up trying to describe every movement my characters make? I feel like I'd lose a lot of depth that way. Whether a character meets or avoids another's eyes at different points during a conversation can speak volumes.
Somebody's probably going to tell me to use more synonyms, but I wonder if there's any other advice people have. Maybe I need a bigger vocabulary, but the synonyms I come up with often don't fit the context. ("Whirl" can't describe somebody turning slowly, for instance, and "rotate" is the wrong style altogether.)
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May Ardi defend you and light your way,
Miri sustain you and welcome you home,
and harmony make your house its dwelling-place.
-traditional Arronae benediction